Week 25 The Baby is Kicking

Week 25 The Baby is Kicking

The thrill is thrilling. It makes me feel engaged, alive and as excited as any first father. There is more. The passing of life makes you realise that life is too fast. You never feel it is too fast when it is passing but looking back in older age you realise it then. Suddenly the babies are all almost 30-years old. Its a speed that has no real measure.

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Becoming a father in your 50s

Becoming a father in your 50s

Becoming a father in your 50s does raise a lot of internal questions especially this one.

Would I live long enough to see the child grow into an adult?

Here is what I felt.

I know a guy my age that had never seen, heard or met his father. My own wife’s father died suddenly when she was just 17-years old. A friend of mine had lost his father when he was just 7-years old. I could go on. Even my own dad first met his father when he was 19 years of age.

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